Hoarding is not a mere accumulation of useless junk.
It involves many thought processes with the decision to discard. These thought processes impinge on the hoarder’s decision-making process which ultimately results in the item not being discarded.
Following are some common thoughts what a hoarder is likely to think.
- “I’ll throw this away later…”
- “I might need this at a future time…”
- “I do not know where to store this. It doesn’t belong anywhere.”
- “I have a feeling that I will clean up soon and that is when I will need some items I have collected.”
- “This item might be valuable in the future and if I discard it, I will be at a loss.”
- “I need to prepare myself for the next Great Depression!”
- “These things offer me a sense of comfort. I am inaccessible to anyone. No one would dare come close to the pile, leave alone me. Hence I am protected.”
- “These items are actually gifts from someone close. How can I even think of discarding them?”
- “This reminds me of my lost loved one…it is perhaps the last piece of interaction I have between us two”
- “My loved one, whom I lost years ago, liked these items. I believe s/he will come someday to collect it.”
- “I collect these things so that I can possibly gift them to someone later.”
- “I might be financially deprived to afford these items. Hence, I need to save them, even if they are small things like wrapping paper or ribbons.”
- “I need to keep this item so that I remember something which I am likely to forget at a future date.”
- “I feel relieved when I discard my stuff. However, once it’s done, I feel suddenly exposed. They are my safety pile.”
- “Survival is about being prepared. Hence, I need to collect these items. I need to rely on myself and not on anybody”
- “People can walk out of your lives. Things don’t.”
- “Discarding these items makes me feel guilty about discarding it. Like it’s a criminal thing to do.”
- “Right now, I do not have the time at my disposal to sort through these things. I will keep them here, so I can go through them, another day.”
- “It gives me an excuse to get out of social obligation. I can always say I can’t go to a party because I have so much cleaning to do.”
- “I believe in recycle and reuse.”
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